Since many of you commented on this: admittedly, I haven't traveled to many developing, (and to no 3rd tier) countries, beyond three in the Americas and several in E. Europe. Evidently, in any and most countries (except the Germanic/Nordic ones, still a different realm), the way from an airport to the city would be sided with all sorts of industrial or less than pretty places. It is the coarseness and primitive nature of those half-completed shacks and makeshift dwellings in AR that made an impression on me. I told about it also in the context of what I later saw elsewhere in the country - a significantly more rudimentary level of construction than I wished to see.
Very moving your mentions of your personal romance stories that brought you here, you guys. Again, I don't doubt that someone resourceful can find and sustain a fulfilling life in such ample country or in its vibrant capital city. For me, I don't have the time to rebuild one from the ground up.
I'm not religious and I wish you all a Happy Yule, or whatever you celebrate at the turning of the year!